Probably nothing.
http://talk.islamicnetwork.com/showthread.php?t=9182
I personally believe that coming online and staying in the sisters section only still goes against the whole 'stay in your homes' spirit, even if the posts are made 'in your home.'
Weather they are in a 'sisters only' section, or the corner table, or their friend's blog – they are still going against the spirit. There is hardly any difference between a woman who resides in her home, but leaves once a day to interact with other humans versus one who logs into a forum once (or more) a day to interact with other humans. Both are people who are not from those who 'stay in their homes' (at the very least, to be considered from this group, the majority of one's days should be spent not leaving the house).
A Woman goes from Her father's house, to her husband's house, to her grave.
That is it.
sleeplesslonging said
sas are you a hardcore dhahiree? just wondering
but yeah I feel you; it would be way cooler without any of the female species around
wassalam
-Neon Knight-
Abu Hurayrah said
Akhee, what’s the reference for this statement:
A Woman goes from Her father’s house, to her husband’s house, to her grave.
You’ve said it before, but I don’t recall the source.
Sarfaraz Jamal said
It is some old arab statement that a friend of mine used to say, but i heard it from Abdur Rahman’s authorty (of that friend) but I forget his name now.
Khaled Kobrousli or Ayman… one of them.
Abu Ilyas said
Lol Sas, you’re raw!
alk said
in the nasheed section where u have put arabic and english text for the nasheed artist, you may want to put the same for the Quran section with their names in arabic text which will increase the number of people coming via search engine.
islaami said
Sas, you’re an idiot.
Danish Hasan said
From those people that Allah ta’ala raised was a young boy named Ahmad.
Ahmad lived in Baghdad over a thousand years ago. On those cold wintery
nights, his mother – the blessed Mu’minah that she was – would wake long
before Fajr to warm the water for her son. Then – again long before Fajr -
she would wake him to make Wudu, then she would wrap him in shawls and off
through the molten dark alleys of Baghdad they would carefully make their way
to the Masjid.
There was no male to escort him (he was an orphan), so Ahmad’s mother would
take him that early so that he could get a good seat in the Hadith halaqah
after Fajr. Then she would wait for him long after the sun rose to safely
escort him back home. Her son grew up to be one of these warrior defenders
of the Sunnah, one of the four Imams of this Deen, Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal.
Robert said
That is one egotistical statement there Sas. Perhaps you should revise your opinion.
What about Aishah (RA)? She lead a rebellion didn’t she? That’s not going from your husband’s house to your grave. Get a life, and stop opressing women. I’m not some freak liberal, but Islam gave rights to women, not the other way.
And you spelled “Whether” wrong as “Weather”. you dolt.
Sarfarz Jamal said
It just goes to show you what sad times we live in that we have a rich heirtiage of females who did amazing things – yet if today they would all come online, you would be hard pressed to find s single reason as you said ‘not to oppress them’
Sarfarz Jamal said
Danish, right – how does that have to do anything with a bunch of women on a message board.
I never said if we were to ban all wonderful mothers who made sure our sons prayed, etc. we would be fine without it =) I am limiting it, to their participation in the online / real world.
danishhasan said
dont worry…..my post wasnt in opposition to what you said entirely…..just the last part
Allahu Alim
Wardatul-Syauki said
salam
i have to admit that, think positive and be positive..
verily, Allah knows best~!
Umm Muwahidah Al-Kurdiyya said
So a woman has no place in the public realm? She has no say in what happens around her? She has no say in the community she lives in? I’m not a modernist or liberal or whatever you might be thinking, in fact I’m quite the opposite, but I think your last sentence pretty much sums up what you think women are good for. I’m sorry to break it to you, but women make up half the society (if not more), and are the foundation of the muslim home- don’t you think they’re entitled to have a say in public affairs? I’m not saying write for the sake of Taqq al-Hannak (cheap laughs), but you seriously mean to say, a woman should spend her entire life inside four walls? Your own wife writes on the board, although not much, but I have seen her participate in public discussions.
'Arabeyyah said
It’s amazing how men forget the place of women as scholars, as nurses on the battle field, as mujaahidaat, as public officials [does shifaa bint abdullah ring a bell, in the reign of umar?]. Women weren’t created to be maids.
sleeplesslonging said
yes women were created to be maids and the last two posts preceding mine were written by idiots. thank you.
Pashtana said
“A Woman goes from Her father’s house, to her husband’s house, to her grave.”
My dad says this is what the Pashtoons say ( trribal non islamic Pashtoons) out of Jahiliyah, that a women has no rights, all she does is serve at her father house then her husbands then her grave!
, and unfortunately it is still this way with many Afghan/ Pashtoons.
mm sas u a Pathan / Pashtoon right?
ya koor we ya Goor ( either home or grave)
Alhamdolillah for the guidance, May peace be upon Prophet of Islam who braught us guidance